If this girl doesn’t find a whole row of seats & sit ALL the way down…
Emily Bustamante, best known for being Fabolous’ “baby mama” & being the star of VH1’s trash-tastic “Love and Hip-Hop” show, recently gave an interview where she talks about how the show “was supposed to be all about her & Fab.”
Written by Jas Fly
Wednesday night belonged to Emily B as Pynk Magazine and OR-G Liqueur held a toast in her honor at NYC restaurant and lounge Veranda.
Emily was all smiles as a select group of journalists, influencers, as well as singers Bridget Kelly and Teairra Mari sipped signature cocktails, and dined on delicious French fare.
Of course we weren’t there just for the basmati rice, so as soon as the toast was finished, we pulled Emily aside and got some answers to the questions we’ve been wondering for a while. During our brief chat, she revealed that her and rapper Fabolous have already shot a pilot for a family based reality show and she shut down speculation that the two are back together.
You just wrapped season 2 of Love & Hip Hop, but there doesn’t seem to be much love happening right now.
You know, that’s my biggest problem with the show. It really only shows the negative in our relationships. I realize that it’s from my point of view but then the show paints Fab as this bad guy. They never mention all of the positive things he does. Fab does a LOT of community work, he has a non-profit and he’s a wonderful father.
Do you think that’s one of the main reasons he refused to participate in the show?
No. Actually Fab didn’t want to do the show because he felt like he wouldn’t have any equity in it. He feels like he’s at a place in his career where he should have some ownership in everything that he does. That was the main reason why he won’t do it.
Now you know the long-running speculation that your decision to do the show lead to the end of your relationship.
That’s not true at all. In fact, Fab and I shot a VH1 pilot ourselves, before Love & Hip Hop came along.
Really? What was the premise?
The show was supposed to just be about Fab, myself and our kids. Most people don’t know that. But yeah, there’s a pilot out there somewhere with the four of us. And Fab is working on his own…You know what, I’ll stop there (laughs)
Speaking of kids, are you worried at all about the level of exposure the world is being given to the inner workings of your family?
Well my daughter is older, so she’s already watching the show. But my biggest is fear is when my son gets older. I don’t want him to see it and think that Fab was anything less than a great father, or that he didn’t love me or his sister as much as he does.
Did that fear lead to any regrets over how candid you’ve been?
No. I wear my heart on my sleeve. That’s who I am. And it’s funny because people come up to me saying ‘you shouldn’t have put all your business out there like that’ but I haven’t put our business out there. I’ve expressed my feelings. I’m telling my truth. So I have no regrets about that.
So what is happening between you and Fab? Are you guys back together?
No. Fab and I are cool. That’s it. We’re raising our son.
So then what’s up with your love life?
What love life? It’s non-existent. I’m in that weird in between stage where I’m not where I was, but I’m also not ready to date anyone else.
When you are ready, will you date another rapper?
Absolutely not. I would prefer not to date anyone else in the music industry. I’d like to date someone with a normal life, like a school teacher. In fact there’s a teacher at my daughters school that I have a little crush on…I’m just kidding.
Just kidding huh? Ok. So tell me what is your holiday wish.
Hmmm, I guess just to take a break. We just wrapped shooting and I have a clothing line coming in the fall of 2012 and I’ve been doing a lot of styling. So I guess my holiday wish is just have some quiet time with my kids.